Sometimes in life, you just don’t get along with people – whether it’s a colleague, a friend or even a lover. It’s then that you wonder: Are you really that difficult a person? Are you too hard to love?
Not to sound negative, but it might be so. And due to no fault of your own as the fault, my friend, lies in your stars!
Yes, the sun sign you belong to can actually influence whether you’re hard or easy to love. Check out which category you fall into below:
Aquarius (20th Jan – 18th Feb)
This might sound harsh but you can be called a teensy bit difficult to love. But that’s only because you are such a strong and independent person! You are completely self-reliant and even hard to read, making for a tough combination. Only a very special person can crack your exterior and melt your heart.
Pisces (19th Feb – 20th Mar)
Here’s some news that will cheer you up – you are extremely lovable! Affection and love are dominant traits of your personality and people find it easy to reciprocate in equal measures to these traits. When someone falls in love with you, they fall deep. Moreover, their feelings for you are completely genuine and natural.
Aries (21st Mar – 19th Apr)
Like Aquarians, you are independent too and even ambitious, which can make it seem like you’re hard to love but you’re actually not. You give your 100% in a relationship, and as long as your partner respects you, you remain easy to love.
Taurus (20th Apr – 20th May)
You’re cautious of relationships and generally avoid it. However, once you get one though, you are steady as a rock. You are committed and loyal and these qualities make it easy for your partner to love you.
Gemini (21st May – 20th Jun)
The twin sign, Gemini experience contradictory emotions at the same time. You’ll find yourself wanting to open up and remain closed, which can make communicating with you difficult. This can make it harder for someone to love you. However, when given the chance, your beloved will discover that you love very deeply and truly.
Cancer (21st Jun – 22nd Jul)
As a Cancerian, it’s safe to say that you’re highly emotional and almost way too sensitive. You give your all to your relationship, which is why people love you so much!
Leo (23rd Jul – 22nd Aug)
Don’t take it personally, but people have this view that you are really hard to love due to your apparently self-centered nature. However, as you know already, that is not at all true. Yes, you prioritize yourself but you won’t shy away from prioritizing the one you love.
Virgo (23rd Aug – 22nd Sept)
Virgos think a lot. Actually, they overthink and maintain a safe distance from everyone, which puts them in the ‘hard to love’ category. You guys are also the skeptical kind and don’t let your walls down that easily. However, once you open up, you prove to be the most trustworthy of partners.
Libra (23rd Sept – 22nd Oct)
As a Libran, you try your best to make everyone around you happy because that’s what takes you on a high! And also, that’s exactly what makes you awesomely easy to love! You do everything in your power to make your partner feel comfortable and loved, which is why your partner finds it so easy to love you back. You give them plenty of reasons to!
Scorpio (23rd Oct – 21st Nov)
You are dark and mysterious and never reveal how you feel. This makes it kind of frustrating for your partner to love you. But that doesn’t mean you are an insurmountable challenge to love. All you have to do to go from hard to easy is just let someone in your life. Then you turn into the most committed and loving partner ever.
Sagittarius (22nd Nov – 21st Dec)
Your head is always up in the clouds, which you need to bring down a cloud or two sometimes to be easier to love. Although your partner will have the time of their lives with you, your extreme curiosity can make it hard for them to build a stable relationship with you as you’d sooner take off to satisfy your curiosity than stay with them.
Capricorn (22nd Dec – 19th Jan)
You are very practical, which is good for all the other spheres of your life except for the matters of the heart. When it comes to love, practical is not really the right way to go and that is why you have landed in the ‘hard to love’ category! You tend to evaluate relationships as a business, without realizing that love is irrational! So, instead, try following your heart and watch love come to you.
Easy or hard to love – it doesn’t matter. As long as you’re honest and sincere about your feelings, true and everlasting love will always find its way to you.